There’s a special warmth in being the kind of boomer others genuinely enjoy. But certain habits can create barriers instead of bridges. Rather than changing who you are, it’s better to gently shift behaviors that distance you from younger generations. Here are seven habits to let go of if you want to be that beloved, magnetic presence:
1. Resisting Technology
You don’t have to become a tech expert, but being open to learning about smartphones, apps, or social media helps you connect. Embracing small steps in tech can feel like a bridge, not a burden.
2. Relying Only on Traditional Communication
Phone calls and face-to-face talks are great, but adding video calls, text messaging, or messaging apps helps you meet people where they are—especially when distance or time makes in-person contact harder.
3. Dismissing New Trends
Trends may feel superficial or fleeting, but they often reflect what younger people care about. You don’t have to adopt every trend, but engaging with them (or at least showing curiosity) opens conversation and understanding.
4. Being Stuck in Your Ways
We all love routines and comfort, but refusing to try new things limits your interactions. Whether it’s trying new foods, hobbies, or cultural activities, stepping outside your usual patterns can draw people in rather than push them away.
5. Holding onto Biases
Many of us were taught ways of seeing the world that reflect an earlier era. But being open to challenging and unlearning those views—especially about identity, culture, or relationships—allows you to grow in empathy and respect.
6. Avoiding Self-Improvement
Growth doesn’t stop with age. Learning, refining your habits, exploring new ideas, or finding new skills keeps your spirit alive and gives you fresh topics to share with others.
7. Neglecting to Listen
Listening is not just hearing words—it’s putting aside your agendas and truly trying to understand someone else’s perspective. The gift of genuine listening deepens trust and connection.
